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An unsuccessful dating history can lead to trust issues. So can bad experiences in a relationship. These trust issues are very hard to get over and many girls have a nagging voice in the back of their minds that tells them that men aren’t to be trusted – even nice ones.
These are toxic thoughts and they can stand in the way of getting you back on track. The fact is that not all men are cheats and there is the very real possibility that there are factors in your own bad experiences that you are unwilling to entertain. Let the past drop for now – it’s time to start something new.
The trouble is that the bitterness of trust issues really bubbles through in your demeanour. Men notice when a girl has a somewhat aggressive attitude towards their entire sex. They also notice when you seem doubtful of the fact that they are nice, honest people.
Some men like a challenge and may think it’s a good idea to try and win you over; others will suspect they’ll never be able to win someone over when they have already made such a strong decision against them and they will run for the hills.Register for free >>
In a relationship, it’s often important that you are able to share interests with someone you like. That’s why searching for partners by interests often proves so successful. It enables you to seek out like-minded people more effectively and narrow down your search.
It’s not wise to narrow down your search too much, but when you are sure you could never really get on with someone unless they were interested in a particular thing – say, sports or travel or the arts – then you have to give yourself the platform to cut out all those potential relationships that would likely fail on the back of this fundamental problem.
Of course, when searching for a partner, you don’t necessarily have to search according to the things you are interested in and want to share. You can search according to the things they are interested in and that you don’t actually want to share.
For example, you may be into guys who love sport even though you’re not interested in sport yourself. You don’t want to share in the activity, but you enjoy the fact that your man likes to be active. It all depends on the type of person you see yourself with.Register for free >>
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