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Dating Detox: Sex has lost its fun

Author: Nicky

On the way to finding a lasting and meaningful relationship, a lot of people have a fling here and there – the odd casual relationship that offers a bit of fun and the possibility of something more meaningful, but that doesn’t always deliver. Sex is often a big part of these relationships because it is a window to greater intimacy between partners.

So what’s going wrong if sex is no longer much fun? The answer is probably that you’re doing it with the wrong person at the wrong time. Sex can be fun even if it’s casual as long as you are happy in yourself about the relationship. If your dating strategy is starting to sap your enjoyment of sex, diminishing your sex drive, then a dating detox is in order.

Casual sex can satisfy a bodily need without satisfying an emotional need. Sometimes that’s very positive. But it’s negative if the sex is becoming a chore too and it’s getting in the way of the sexual motivation that adds depth to your search for a partner on an emotional level. Giving the casual sex a rest for a while is good way of helping you get your priorities in order.

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Dating Detox: No time for anything else

Author: Nicky

The signs that you need a dating detox are not all about the effect dating has on your mood when you’re no longer excited about them or you feel as though you’re not getting any return for the effort you’re putting in. Sometimes dating takes over your life and you need to be careful that this doesn’t happen.

If you discover that you simply have no time for anything else that you may be pushing your dating life too hard. Going on several dates a week is hard work. It’s really taxing on your mind and on your wellbeing and dating burnout can occur. This means you won’t perform at your best on each date and you won’t enjoy much success.

If you’ve not seen your friends or family in ages because you’re always dating; or you’ve not taken the time to just chill out and relax; or if dating is starting to interfere with your professional life, now is the time to enjoy a dating detox. Then you can start dating at a much less furious pace in the future in order to do justice to yourself and to the people you meet up with.

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