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Dating Detox: Sex has lost its fun

Author: Nicky

On the way to finding a lasting and meaningful relationship, a lot of people have a fling here and there – the odd casual relationship that offers a bit of fun and the possibility of something more meaningful, but that doesn’t always deliver. Sex is often a big part of these relationships because it is a window to greater intimacy between partners.

So what’s going wrong if sex is no longer much fun? The answer is probably that you’re doing it with the wrong person at the wrong time. Sex can be fun even if it’s casual as long as you are happy in yourself about the relationship. If your dating strategy is starting to sap your enjoyment of sex, diminishing your sex drive, then a dating detox is in order.

Casual sex can satisfy a bodily need without satisfying an emotional need. Sometimes that’s very positive. But it’s negative if the sex is becoming a chore too and it’s getting in the way of the sexual motivation that adds depth to your search for a partner on an emotional level. Giving the casual sex a rest for a while is good way of helping you get your priorities in order.

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